Why Some Narcissist Don’t Try and Come Back. Why the Narcissist Doesn’t Come Back for You
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Many people who have been in toxic relationships with #narcissists wonder why their ex does not try to #hoover or come back after the #discard phase. There are several possible reasons for this, which we will explore.
First, the #narcissist may have found a new source of #narcissistic supply and is focusing their energy on the new target. They idealize and #lovebomb the new person, getting their ego needs met. With a fresh fix of admiration and attention, the #narcissist feels no need to go back to an old source of supply. They have moved on to greener pastures. #narcissists are always looking for their next victim.
Second, the #narcissist may be harboring resentment toward their ex for calling out their toxic behaviors and creating #boundaries. #Narcissists hate to be held accountable. If the target pulls away and gains independence, withdrawing that sweet #supply, the #narcissist will feel rejected. Rather than self-reflect, they blame their ex and undergo #narcissistic injury. Going back would injure their ego further.
Third, the target may have gotten wise to the #narcissist’s games. After educating themselves about #narcissisticabuse, the target no longer falls for manipulation tactics like #gaslighting, #triangulation, and #projection. The jig is up. The #narcissist knows they cannot dupe someone who sees through their false mask, so they don’t bother hoovering. It is a waste of their time and effort.
Fourth, the #narcissist has callously #discarded their ex and moved on without remorse. #Narcissists lack empathy and have no capacity for missing someone. Out of sight, out of mind. Once the ex stops providing supply, the #narcissist loses interest and regards the target as utterly disposable. They simply don't care enough to come back.
Fifth, the #narcissist has painted their ex black through #smear campaigns and #characterassassination. They have thoroughly #devalued the target to family, friends, coworkers, etc. The #narcissist feels that their ex is beneath them now and not worth hoovering back for supply. Bridges have been burned.
Sixth, the #narcissist may be avoiding their ex out of a sense of self-preservation. Perhaps the ex has gone no contact, threatened to expose them, or has proof of the #narcissist’s lies and abuse. The #narcissist stays away to dodge accountability and save their false image. They don't want to stir up trouble.
Seventh, the #narcissist has secured new supply sources and flying monkeys to do their bidding. The ex is no longer useful, so the #narcissist discards them for good. Out with the old, in with the new. The #narcissist is busy manipulating their harem and triangulating new targets against old ones.
In summary, #narcissists may not hoover exes if they have found richer supply elsewhere, resent boundaries, fear exposure of their tactics, have no empathy, have smeared the target, or want to avoid accountability. The #narcissist callously moves forward using people with no remorse. With knowledge of their games, we can go no contact and avoid further abuse.
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http://RecoverThyself.com/ ──────────── 00:00 - ▶ Why Some Narcissists Don't Try to Come Back 01:36 - ▶ When the Narcissistic Leech Has Drained You Dry 02:58 - ▶ When the Narcissist Fears Rejection 04:17 - ▶ When the Narcissist Fears Being Exposed 05:28 - ▶ When the Narcissist Finds New Supply 06:44 - ▶ When the Narcissistic Cockroach Gets Sprayed with Raid 08:09 - ▶ When the Narcissist Gets Bored and Needs New Thrills 09:25 - ▶ When the Washed-Up Narcissist Gets Traded In
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