Rewriting History and Blame Shifting : What do #narcissists do when they lose control of you

When #narcissists feel they are losing #control over you, one tactic is to rewrite the #history of the #relationship with #excessive #blameshifting.

The #narcissist will construct a completely fabricated #narrative where they are the #victim and you are the #villain. Don't buy into the #gaslighting.

#Narcissists cannot handle anything that contradicts their #falseself. So when you #breakfree, they #reconstruct reality to preserve their #delusions.

The #blameshifting and #historyrewriting is also #projection. The #narcissist knows they #abused you, so they falsely accuse you first.

The #narcissist will say the #relationship failed because you were too #needy, #sensitive, #demanding, or #crazy. This is #invalidation.

They may #vilify you as the #abuser to #play the #victim. This helps them #justify their #cruel #discard and #smearcampaign.

#Narcissists suddenly develop total #amnesia for any #mistreatment on their part when they need to #rewritehistory.

Don't defend yourself against the #falseaccusations. #Narcissists are just trying to still get #supply from you by provoking #reactions.

The #narcissist’s ego is so #fragile that they cannot admit fault. It’s always someone else’s responsibility.

#Narcissists live in their own #delusional #world. Don't expect them to ever gain #selfawareness or take #accountability.

When you were still #compliant #supply, the #narcissist idealized you. Now they #devalue you as #punishment.

The #narcissist is trying to destroy your #credibility first before you can #expose their #abuse. It's preemptive #damagecontrol.

When you #discard the #narcissist first, their #egotakes a huge blow. They will try to #reverse the #roles to save face.

#Narcissists want you to believe that leaving them - not their #mistreatment - caused all your #pain and #trauma. Resist this #gaslighting.

#Narcissists cannot self #reflect. It's too #threatening to their #falseself. It’s easier to just #blameshift.

#Projection is a key #narcissist defense mechanism when their #mask starts slipping.

#Narcissistic #rage peaks when you #invalidate their #falseself by #awakening to the #abuse. Get ready for #backlash.

The #narcissistic #fantasyland they constructed relies on your #compliance. They can't handle you now seeing through all the #lies.

#Narcissists often have #delusions of #grandeur. In their minds, they are #flawless. So you must be the #defective one.

When #narcissists are outed as #abusers, they immediately adopt a “#woeisme” #persona. Don't fall for the #victimact.

#Narcissists will #gaslight you into thinking you had an #idealizedconnection. Don't let them #whitewash the #abuse.

A #smearcampaign seeks to #assassinate your #character to regain #control. #Narcissists want people on their #side.

Keep #documentation of the #narcissist's #hypocrisy and #cruelty to #counter the #falsenarrative. The #truth always prevails.

#Narcissists construct #grandiose #delusions to escape #accountability. Trying to #reason with them is pointless. Just #walkaway.

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