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Admiration Turned Nightmare❤️🩹 Surviving Narcissistic Discard Watch Full Video at : https://youtu.be/kgdsDxvcIEU ❤️🩹 This video discusses the painful narcissistic cycle of being admired then abruptly discarded. Learn the narcissist's tactics of idealization and devaluation.
Narcissists initially idolize partners, admiring them excessively through love bombing. But this idealization later gives way to criticism, stonewalling, and ultimately discarding victims when their ego needs aren't met.
Love bombing signs include constant flattery, gifts, texts, monopolizing your time, pushy demands for commitment early on. It feels great at first, but it's not real love - it's a narcissist's tactic to hook you.
Eventually, the admiration fades. The narcissist becomes hypercritical, withdrawing affection, giving the silent treatment for days, gaslighting you, starting pointless fights, emotionally cheating, devaluing you.
Finally, the narcissist discards abruptly and cruelly when they find new supply. They delete you from their life immediately, already lining up your replacement before dumping you.
The narcissistic cycle of idealize, devalue, and discard is traumatic. But you deserve someone who values you consistently, not just when it suits their ego. Don't pine for their hoovering and false promises. Move forward knowing your worth.
Love bombing definition - It's an attempt to influence someone with lavish demonstrations of attention and affection. It's the idealization phase of narcissistic abuse used to hook victims.
Love bombing meaning - Love bombing means being smothered with constant praise, gifts, texts, flattery and grand displays of interest. It feels good at first but it's actually a manipulation tactic.
Love bombing signs - Excessive flattery, constant texting, showering you with gifts and compliments, idolizing you, pressuring you to commit early, trying to take up all your time and wanting constant communication.
Love bombing cycle - The narcissistic abuse cycle of idealize, devalue and discard. First comes love bombing, then criticism and emotional withdrawal, then the narcissist loses interest and cuts off contact.
Love bombing examples - Telling someone "You're the most perfect person in the world and my soulmate" after a few dates, texting constantly from morning to night, demanding someone’s constant attention and time. Buying extravagant gifts, insisting on only seeing each other despite just meeting.
Narcissistic devaluation - After idealizing a partner, the narcissist soon begins devaluing them through criticism, withdrawal, gaslighting, and comparison to others. It's a way to undermine self-esteem and maintain control.
Narcissistic discard - When a narcissist is done with a partner who no longer satisfies their ego needs, they abruptly and cruelly end the relationship with zero closure. The victim gets deleted, replaced immediately, and treated as they never existed.
Narcissist final discard - The narcissist may unexpectedly hoover to test if you'll provide supply again. But if you don't respond as desired, they will execute a final discard.
How to discard a narcissist - Go no contact completely, cut ties cold turkey. Give zero explanations or closure - they gave none to you. Expect Hoover attempts which you must ignore. Put your healing first.
Signs of covert narcissism - Constantly plays the victim, subtly devalues you, pretends humility, judgmental, envious, guilt trips you, passive aggressive, secretly controlling.
Covert narcissistic abuse - Covert narcissists are more subtle in their tactics like gaslighting, emotional blackmail, slander, sabotage. But the invalidation and exploitation have similar devastating effects.
Covert narcissist discard - Discards happen more slowly since covert narcissists fear losing supply sources entirely. But the unrelenting diminishment, infidelity and abandonment are still deeply traumatic.
Discarded by narcissistic parent - Being discarded by a narcissistic parent often occurs after years of emotional neglect, scapegoating, conditioning the child to serve their unmet needs. Moving on is difficult but necessary.
Stages of narcissistic abuse - Idealization, devaluation, discard. The narcissist first love bombs, then diminishes and criticized, then abandons their victim when ego needs aren't sufficiently fed.
Overcoming narcissistic abuse - Establish boundaries, go no contact, seek support from others, engage in self-care, get therapy, learn warning signs so you can avoid narcissists in the future.
Life after narcissistic abuse - Rediscover who you are beyond the narcissist’s projections. Follow passions, expand your social circle, learn to self-validate. It takes time to rebuild but you will thrive again.
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