Perception is not reality; character is.

Islam is not about posing and posturing, and trying to create an impressive image for others to admire. This is what Red Pill Theory teaches, and it is anathema to our values and principles. Going through life sending out superficial signals will only impress and attract superficial, shallow people, which is the same thing as a lifetime of loneliness.

Our Prophet and the Sahabah demonstrated simple, honest, straightforward representation of oneself, without pretense, and this is the only approach that will connect you with solid people. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPFj74GdToo